Hey Finn!
I think the "fine line" is mostly in the perception rather than the intention. My reasons for dropping are obviously very liberally applied and I'm sure there are some in dogfight who consider me a chronic dropper. While I don't think of myself that way, I understand why some might believe it to be true... until I take out a bunch of their hangars anyway. LOL!
Taking CS' report at face value I understand where he was coming from. I also understand how 420 came to the conclusion that she did. Perhaps squad chat or PM s might have been a better venue for the discussion? I have heard and read about PC players using different settings for different play styles. I never thought about how it might set your style for an entire series of games. Hmmm.
It can be hard to keep tempers down when frustration is fed by misunderstandings. Don't forget that it's a game. Fun is hereby mandated!
If someone is doing something that pisses you off, either leave or do something about it. Accusations rarely solve anything whether it's because of a misunderstanding or because someone is being an asshat. If it's someone in the squad, please give them the benefit of the doubt and talk it out. We're squad mates for a reason, right?