Or, you could just learn how to land/ take off without crashing in to anybody?
Zup has made it pretty clear that no major changes are going to happen for df. Something like this is going to be waaaay down his list. Admittedly, it's difficult to land on a runway nowadays without crashing into a spawning plane since they spawn all over the place. So land ahead of the runway and taxi on to the strip. Carriers is a no brainer. Land at the front. As far as crashing into players that spawn in front of you? It does take a bit of attention, but it's easily navigatable as long as you pay attention. Adds dimension to the game. I actually like it! Remember, as long as you are moving slowly, you will move through the plane and not crash.
Hope this helps!