Well, we celebrated my sons birthday today (turning 10 tomorrow). What an epic failure

With having family over on a warm day, we just ordered hoagies with potato salad and other "refreshing" side items. I didn't know my son didn't want hoagies, but that's what his gmom ordered. Then we had ice cream cake to celebrate...only to find out tonight he didn't want that, but told his gmom he wanted vanilla cake
I wished he told me these things, I would've made/given whatever he wanted

In the end, what a crappy birthday for him and haven't been in a Misfit mood, tho I feel I made him feel like a misfit today...and not the good kind. Ugh.
Gotta make it up to him