Parrott, I understand your concern.  However, I'll drop my bomb to support my teammates, or destract the opponent away from the bombers, or if it's a 1 on 4 (or more) situation, or fly fast to an area to aid a teammate.  My point is, to me, it's all about strategy.  Like chess.  I'll try to anticipate my opponents every move.  Most of the time it works.  Sometimes it's a disaster  

 All in all, I try to make it fun for me and everyone else.  I guess, in a way, it is being selfish.
My pet peeve is when I'm in a game and I get a call.  And ultimately, get booted off.  In never fails, when I'm in a great game, a friend or my girlfriend will call me.  When a friend calls, I'll say, "dude, why you calling me?".  If the gf calls, I'll say, "Hi honey, how are you?" (who am I kidding, if I get nasty about it with the gf, I'll never win   

 Men, always pick your battles with women.  Otherwise, 9 out of 10 times, you'll lose.  Trust me!!   

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Al aka MaVrk